Many people yearn for the life of their dreams, but find themselves unable to manifest it. This can be disheartening in some cases and crushing in others. Shame on any person who is not living their dream life, despite all they know they have to do. Take a step back and examine whether or not you are living your vision off of your dreams. If you're struggling with this issue, here are some tips to try out!
1) The first thing you should do is open the doors that need opening
Let go of the idea that there's one exact way you have to live your life. You might have been told that one way is the only way, but it's just not true. You're a special individual. There's no one walk that will give you the life you want it to be. Don't let anyone convince you of that!
2) Don't be attached to your current path
If this is your dream, why would you want to continue on with what is making you unhappy? If there's a reason why it hasn't happened yet, then how can those same reasons lead you to its realization? Yes, there are circumstances beyond your control that prevent certain things from occurring right now. That doesn't mean they'll always be an obstacle in front of you as well.
3) Create the world you want to live in
A common concept that is found in a lot of the eastern philosophy is that everything you do is an action. As odd as it may seem, literally everything you do has an effect on your life and your world. This means that if you want to create a different vision, then you have to alter your actions as well. You can't change the actions of others, so instead start living in a more positive way!
4) Look at your situation from different perspectives
It might be hard to think of things in a different light when you are struggling with them, but it's necessary. There are many different ways in which you can approach an issue, and it's up to you to find one. Try taking the perspective of someone who would really be there for you if something changed. Think about what they would say and what they would do if they were in your shoes.
5) Take action
Stop daydreaming! If you want something, then it's time prepare yourself for it. Don't wish for things that aren't happening yet! Just because your vision isn't being brought forth right now doesn't mean it has to stay that way! There's often a reason why things go the way they do, and once you understand that reason, then you can make those changes needed.
6) Find the solution together
Once you've found a way to live your vision, make sure you're sharing it with others. If there's no one who knows about your dreams then how can you expect them to help? When people are on the same page with you and know what needs to happen, then they'll be able to provide help when you need it most. This can be especially helpful if you have family or friends who care about your well-being.
7) Take note of everything that is blocking your path
If something is keeping you from living your vision, then it's time to face it head-on. Don't let problems linger! Even though you might be stressed or feel like something is preventing you from making your own choices, it doesn't mean that's the case from another point of view. You are often your own worst enemy in these situations, so take on a more positive outlook instead.
8) Take care of yourself first
Nothing will get done if you don't take care of yourself first.