It's the end of December and hopefully you're in full swing into your resolutions for this year. If not, you might want to start now! We know it's probably hard, but getting started is key for long-term success. So what better place to begin than with some advice on how to keep those resolutions! Let us know if you have any other thoughts by leaving a comment below or emailing us at inquiries@advicebya.com .
Write an introduction to an informative and factual blog post titled "The Most Common Mistakes Men Make In Relationships". It should be at least 250 words, and should include a short paragraph on each of the following:
A)Too much too soon.
B) Being too demanding.
C) Not being expressive enough.
D) Being lazy. This includes work, exercise and chores.
Both A and C are completely wrong! You don't need to be needy and clingy in the beginning or do endless favors for your partner in order to "keep" him or her interested in you. If a girl really likes you, she'll want to spend all her time with you. It's when she starts feeling controlled or suffocated that she'll start pulling away--and then you'll wonder what happened.
"Being demanding" is also not a good idea. You should never expect anything from anyone and especially not from a girl or your partner, because it is incredibly unattractive. You should give all the time and wait for them instead! If you want something, just ask for it politely, that way you come across as an adult who can communicate and understand expectations.
Guys, this is one of the most common mistakes I see in relationships. Guys have this idea that when they "get" a girl or get into a new relationship, they should immediately start acting like Mr. Wonderful. This is nonsense! If you act too eager and too interested, you will scare her off instead of drawing her closer to you. Why? It's just human nature: women do not want an overly eager man who will jump on them the second she shows even the slightest amount of interest--it's just not attractive to most women!
You also need to take care of yourself as well! Take care of your hygiene, look good and dress appropriately for the situation. Don't look disheveled in her presence, don't be too loud or too obviously drunk, and don't be sloppy by being untidy or doing a bad job on housework. You'll know when you're doing a good job on these things. Only commit to someone if you know that she thinks you care about how you look and how your house looks!
For B, "too much too soon" is simply not true. You should not make any kind of commitment (marriage, regular sex) without being ready for it by taking the necessary steps. This is true for college and any other life goal. Just because you're dating someone doesn't mean that you have to get married tomorrow! In fact, you shouldn't. If you are looking to have a more serious relationship than just "dating," make sure that it's just as serious for them, too. Maybe they're not ready yet. Maybe they don't see your potential or aren't attracted to certain things about you (yet). You need to understand what the problems are first before fixing them, otherwise rebuilding the relationship will be harder than ever!
C) This is a very common problem for people in relationships and especially guys who've been cheated on in the past.