Coaching Men How To Communicate Suavely With Women
There's a lot that you can learn in the world of dating and relationships, but somethings are universal. Whether you're dating, married, or just looking to generate more eye contact in general, it's important to be able to communicate with women effectively. Unfortunately however, this isn't always an easy task.
If someone tells you that they can tell exactly what you're feeling just by looking into your eyes, they're probably not going to gain many friends. It's a bit of an oversimplification on the subject and there are plenty of guys who could learn how to get laid by being more charming, charismatic, and emotionally expressive. If a guy is able to communicate effectively with others, it'll make his life a lot easier in terms of developing relationships and getting laid.
The good news is that all this communication can be learned, but it's still important to understand where things might fall apart. And chances are if you're reading this article you probably noticed that the first step in communication starts with eye contact. From there you want to make sure you're being expressive and that you're able to convey the emotions that you're feeling to the others around you. The direction of your gaze, combined with your facial expressions, will make all the difference in how clear your intentions are. Because if you aren't communicating effectively, then it's just not going to work out.
It's important to know when and why eye contact fails; because if we can know why it sometimes doesn't work, we can look for ways to work around it or fix the problem altogether. It's not an easy task, but eye contact is still pretty important in this sort of communication.
If we're trying to communicate with people, or even just speak to them, it's important to be able to make eye contact. If our eye contact is broken, then it's harder for us to convey what we're feeling and what we're trying to tell the other person. It's like if our message gets intercepted by a third party; there's no way he'll get our full meaning or intent.
The types of communication that you want to avoid when speaking with women are closed off or blocked eye contact, as well as frequent and excessive blinking. Both of these things make us look like we're hiding something and not being fully honest with ourselves (or others).
When you're speaking with someone there are a couple different types of eye contact, and it's important to understand the difference between them. We'll go over each type in this article and we'll cover why the wrong kinds of eye contact can be detrimental to your ability to get laid.
We have an instinctive desire to avoid an eye gaze with another person if we feel like they're judging us. Our instinct is telling us that if someone is staring at us they probably disapprove of some part of our behavior or appearance. This fear isn't as strong when we're talking with close friends or family, but it doesn't make it any less real.
Eye contact is also used to convey or suggest intimacy. This can be a distracting tactic, if used in the wrong circumstances, that might make you look like you're trying too hard. It's important to understand how your eye contact affects people when you're talking to them and being social; if it consistently makes them feel uncomfortable then you have some work to do.
It's probably pretty obvious that eye contact can be good or bad depending on your situation and the person you're focusing on. If we use it effectively, it can create a lot of positive situations in our life by making us more charismatic and friendly. It can also be used in a negative way to create distrust, jealousy, or to suggest that someone is judging you.
There are a couple different categories of eye contact, each of which is important for different situations.
Regular and proper eye contact is the most basic type of eye contact and it's important when we're socializing with others. This type of eye contact can imply intimacy if it's done properly, which has all sorts of benefits to us (like how it makes us appear more charismatic). If we don't use proper eye contact while speaking with others then they'll start to wonder why you don't look them in the eyes and why you're hiding behind your hair. Eye contact can be used to create a soothing and relaxed mood, while avoiding making someone else feel uncomfortable.
Too much eye contact, on the other hand, is much less effective. It's harder for us to make eye contact with another person if it feels like we're staring at them or watching them too closely. Too much eye contact can make people feel nervous or like they have to look away; this makes the conversation a lot more difficult for you because the focus of their attention is broken.
If your eyes are wide open and staring at someone, then your body language suggests that you're interested in them in some way. They might interpret this as both creepy and intimidating, which is going to make it hard for them to relax and trust you.
It's always a good idea when talking with others to avoid looking like you're looking at them directly. It can be confusing or awkward if you're constantly making eye contact with the other person, especially if your gaze never wavers. Avoiding eye contact too much can make others feel uncomfortable, like you don't want them there or that they are intruding on your personal space. That's a lot of pressure for someone who might not even be interested in talking with you later on down the line.
It's important to understand what eye contact is and why it's sometimes bad for us. If we've learned that good eye contact can make us more charismatic, then we can use this knowledge to our advantage. We'll cover it in detail when we get to the next section, but just remember that eye contact is one of the most basic forms of communication and there are a lot of different ways that it can be used.
Proper eye contact is always a good thing when speaking with others, while too much or inappropriate eye contact can be a disadvantage.
Repetition Is Keys To Success
Pointing out examples of how women want men to behave doesn't really paint them in a flattering way.
The way that people communicate is incredibly important to get a full understanding of. If we don't understand what the other person is trying to say, then it's very hard for us to express ourselves or build rapport with them.
So how can we change this? How do we learn what women want and how we can communicate better with them?
One way that you can improve your communication skills is through talking to multiple different women and hearing what they have to say about the topic. Most people don't take the time to talk over several different people; they just keep looking at one girl's profile and trying to pick up on her signals. They end up missing out on a lot of crucial information about how women interact with men.
Conclusion
This was a deep dive article and I definitely took a lot more time writing about communication than I expected. After reviewing the science and getting acquainted with the way that women act, I think that it's obvious that we need to make some changes in the way that we interact with them.
We all need to be aware of how our behaviors could be misconstrued by someone else, so if we keep talking to women like they're robots then they'll end up finding us offensive and creepy.
I also disliked how little was actually written about women's behavior as is, instead of being given some sort of "one size fits all" solution.