Giving Love, Getting Love, Giving To Get
When people love you, they show it! They make you feel special, wanted and loved. When people don’t love you, they might seem like they are constantly giving to you- but what good is that when you’re not receiving back? This blog post will make it clear how important it is for us to learn how to accept our loved ones' love and give in return. Not only will this article teach you about the benefits of being a giver versus a receiver of love, but also the best ways that we can maintain ‘giving with good intentions’. In order to do so, we must learn the difference between giving love in a healthy way and ‘gifting’ love that is not meant to be received…
By: Lisa P. Horn
Article Title: The Surprising Truth Behind The Perception Of 'Givers' And 'Takers'
We all know the concept of ‘takers’ and ‘givers’- those who do not offer back what they receive, those who give without a sense of receiving anything in return. However, what is the real difference between ‘givers’ and 'takers’, and do either of these really exist?
The idea of ‘givers’ and ‘takers’ is a concept that affects the way we perceive people. It affects how we view those who are hard to read or seemingly impenetrable. While these characteristics are seen as telling us something about the person, they may actually tell us more about our own relationship with them and their ability to connect with others.
Some people deal with this concept by feeling like they are unable to connect or even understand the difference between ‘takers’ and ‘givers’. Others anticipate that those who give will take and take, perhaps expecting to be taken for free even in return. However, there are others who recognize that the difficulty lies within how we define the 'giver' and 'taker'. Are these really two different people or different sides of the same coin?
The difference between being a 'taker' and a 'giver', as we have learned, is much more vast than just being selfish or grateful. This is something that we must learn to accept, learn and understand if we wish to be able to give back.
There are people whom we would assume are 'takers', but may actually be 'givers'. Think about this idea for a moment: when someone drops off a plate of food at your doorstep, do you think they are doing it out of appreciation or because they are hoping that you'll feed them? These people really exist! They may not be making their intentions clear to you, but the truth of the matter is that they really want much more than 'taking'.
There is a way for us all to accept ourselves as givers and allow our loved ones the opportunity to feel appreciated. If we do so, then we can build up the confidence in others that they also have the ability to give. In doing so, we can all learn how to be more empowered givers who are confident in their actions and then see the difference this makes in our relationships.
In order to achieve this, we must first accept ourselves as givers and be comfortable with the idea that other people may need to receive from us as well. The next step is learning how to manage our giving in a healthy way. While it is important for us all to do our part within our relationships, it is also important for us to recognize when a relationship is out of balance and when one person starts taking control of it.
After we learn the difference between 'takers' and 'givers' within ourselves, we can learn how to accept others as well. Then, we can also implement ways of interacting with them in a more focused manner and recognizing how they do not fit into this concept.
We all want to give, but it is important for us to be able to receive as well. It can be easy to focus on how ‘givers’ get taken advantage of, but it is more important for us to recognize that these people only get taken advantage of when they allow themselves to be. We all desire recognition, appreciation, even love. We need to learn how to give in a healthy way and take back what we deserve. Once we do that, we can see the difference that it makes in our closest relationships!
Article Title: It's All About The...Gift
Everyone claims to be a ‘giver’, that is until their gift is not received as expected. As our society shifts, so does the way of handling social interaction. In this day in age, there is a fine line between being a ‘giver’ and being burned by others. This article will explain how to best handle this line.
By: Lisa P. Horn
The amount of time and energy that goes into deciding what to buy someone can be overwhelming. Gift-giving has always been a tradition in many families, and the thing is; it is not just about the gift that you give- it's about the thought behind the gift that matters most.
The first thing to remember is that the person receiving the gift does not realize or understand what it is that you are trying to do. Suppose you want to surprise a friend by having lunch with him. First, it is best to let him know in advance so he will have time to prepare for it, as well as set a nice time for you two to meet up.
Article Title: Love Is All About The Feelings
There are many ways through which we can show our love. The most common way of showing our love is by simply giving someone our attention, thereby helping them with their daily struggles and making them feel special in our presence. More than this, 'love' can be expressed through gifts as well.
However, there is much more to love than just "giving a thing." Love comes in various forms, such as the love between two people who are involved in a relationship, or the bond between parents and children. While it is important to express our feelings of love towards people around us, there are many ways of doing so; some are successful while others are not.
Before we jump on the bandwagon of buying gifts for someone's birthday or anniversary, it would do good for us to understand that this won't always work- after all, it's about the emotion behind each gift that counts.
Conclusion
Article Title: How To Be A Nice Guy
Social interaction requires us to be polite, respectful and very courteous. Being a nice guy depends on the way you approach girls. If you are a nice guy, then girls will like you and befriend you. On the other hand if you are not a nice guy, then girls will reject your advances because these girls want to be treated nicely by men. This article is based on the reality of life.
Article Title: 5 Secret Signs You're A Nice Guy!
Being a nice guy can earn you many rewards all around the world.