The Game What are The Beliefs Of Top Seducers
If you’ve ever felt insecure in your relationships, or just want to be a little more prepared for the next time you go on a date, then this article is for you.
The game of seductions is hard for anyone to win. However, there are some people who seem to have a natural competitive advantage – they are able to get what they want from others and always seem much happier than the rest of us.
What is it that these people know that the rest of us don’t? And most importantly, how can you become one of them?
If you’re like me, you’ve probably been studying this stuff for quite some time. You’ve read every book on seduction, listened to every podcast and have watched countless hours of YouTube videos. You’re well equipped with strategies, tactics and routines.
When it comes to the dating game though, you seem to just go back to square one again – you fail or feel insecure about your next date.
The solution to your problems isn’t just what you know, but what you believe.
Beliefs are the foundation of everything you do in your life, they are the basis of who you are as a person. If you want to create real change in your dating life, then all it takes is changing some of your beliefs.
Listed below are some belief patterns that highly successful seducers have about women and dating. These belief patterns help them get more of what they want at every step of the way. See if any of these resonate with your current beliefs (or lack thereof) and see if there is anything that you can begin applying to your own life in order to start changing things for yourself.
1. Be Educated About Your Future Dating Partners
It can be hard to believe that a woman will fall in love with you just because you’re nice to her. You have to believe that she’s looking for something more than a good time and believes she can have a future with you.
Believing in the power of your words, actions and lifestyle helps make what you want possible for yourself as well as for women who are attracted to you.
2. Don’t Fear That You Might Lose Her Interest
There will always be that one woman who is worth waiting for. If you fail at a certain point, don’t let it get you down. Instead, start looking elsewhere because there might just be another woman out there who’s even better for you.
You have to believe that she wants what you want and if she is interested in you, then it just means she can’t find someone better for her than you.
3. Be Confident With Women You’re Attracted To
Don’t walk up to her with a witty line in mind. Instead, walk up to her being you and by letting her see your true self. Only then will you be able to attract her because you already attract yourself.
If you believe that she will love you for the person you are, then there is nothing stopping that from happening. Free yourself from having to act cool around women or waste time thinking of what to say next because if she is interested in you then it doesn’t really matter how many dominoes fall after one another.
4. Don’t Settle For Less Than The Best
If you are just looking for a good time and not really ready for a relationship, then go ahead and admit it. It’s quite liberating to know the truth. Don’t try to settle for that one woman because she ended up being the best one in your proximity.
Don’t lower your standards; instead, raise it even higher since there is someone out there who is better – you just haven’t found her yet.
5. Don’t Compare Your Current Situation With What You Think It Will Be
If you believe that with good work and effort anything is possible, then you are more likely to succeed. You don’t need to be insecure about your current situation because you know what it will eventually become.
Start working on yourself so that wherever you go, you can go there confident that whatever you do, it will be right. Women want men who are able to make them feel good about themselves without having to try too hard.
6. Don’t Act A Certain Way Because Of How You Feel About Yourself
The hardest part of any human being is their own mind. If you can change your beliefs about yourself, then you will make all the other changes in your life much easier to accomplish.
If you believe that your mind is what controls everything else in your life, then it makes sense to make sure that it’s a positive influence. If you want her to love you for who you are, then start believing in yourself first.
7. Be Confident In Your Physical Qualities
You might be a lot better looking than what she had imagined, but confidence is more attractive than good looks anyway.
Don’t be afraid to let her see who you really are, embrace your flaws – they only make you real.
8. Be The One To Make The First Move
If you believe that women are as interested in you as you are in them, then it will follow that this means they will be the ones to approach you. Start giving off the right signals and being more proactive because she might just like what she sees when she approaches you first.
9. Don’t Let Anything Hold You Back
If something doesn’t work for you and she stops responding, don’t sit around feeling sorry for yourself because it wasn’t meant to be anyway.
Remember that she also had a choice to respond or not. She might have been busy or she wasn’t interested in you enough for her to act.
10. Don’t Compare Yourself With Others
There is no other person out there that can guarantee success like you can. If you compare your own situation to the rest of them, then all the chances are lost.
Don’t forget that your success is on all of us and we must share whatever we have because each one of us will leave this life sooner or later, even though it might not seem so at first glance.
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Conclusion
You can have any woman that you want if you know how to get her. However, it will only be yours for as long as you know how to keep her.
In the end, it’s not about what you do but what do you believe?
Beliefs are the basis of everything we do and as a result, they will shape our future and decide our destiny with women. The beliefs we have today are the same that got us where we are today – or took us there. Beliefs determine our actions while actions determine what we have in this life.